Coat your ramekins with butter, dust with flour, and place in fridge. The texture on the sides will allow your souffle to climb up better. Grated Parmesan works even better but is decidedly less French.
Preheat oven to 375°F
Separate your egg whites into the mixing bowl and your egg yolks into the small bowl to keep for later
Chop your chives and parsley into very small pieces (heavy things can sink in the batter)
Make your bechamel and set aside (see the notes below on how to make a bechamel)
Whip your egg whites (see the notes below on tips for whipping egg whites)
Take half your bechamel mix at a time and fold into the egg whites (do not stir it or you will pop the bubbles)
Pour into the ramekins and place in oven
Bake for 30 minutes (do not open the oven until done)
Serve immediately in ramekin (they will deflate as they cool)